Book: Diye Pugchha (A motivational book) by Rohit Bhandari. Published by Jaykali Prakashan Griha Pvt. Ltd. Page: 176. Price: Rs. 450. ISBN: 978-9937-1-8226-3
What
we observe in our society is often a relentless pursuit of wealth and personal
success, sometimes even at the expense of the well-being and achievements of
others. As society appears to be drifting towards a state of detached
individualism, genuine human connection has frequently been overshadowed by
self-interest and corruption. Sadly, this trend has also affected Nepali
society, which is renowned for its close-knit communities and deeply ingrained
values of compassion and hospitality.
Faced
with a struggling economy and escalating living costs, people are finding it
increasingly difficult to cope. In their struggle for survival, cherished bonds
of social unity are gradually weakening under the pressure of material desires
and a 'me first' mentality. A sense of pessimism is prevalent, particularly
among the youth who, disillusioned by corruption, unemployment, and inequality,
are losing faith in the possibility of collective progress.
Yet,
even amidst this growing gloom, there are inspiring glimmers of hope – ordinary
individuals undertaking extraordinary acts, with some demonstrating such
profound dedication to society and their fellow citizens that it is truly
remarkable. Though perhaps few in number, we encounter social pioneers and
remarkably selfless individuals who are choosing compassion over convenience
and service over self-interest. They are rekindling hope for humanity and a
better society around us. At least, all is not lost.
Journalist
and author Rohit Bhandari has documented the stories of several such heroes in
his book, 'Diye Pugchha' (It's Enough to Give). The life stories recounted in
this book serve as powerful testaments to the fact that one does not need
immense wealth to make a significant difference; what is truly essential is a
heart 'big enough' to give. Moreover, the act of giving extends far beyond
monetary donations. For instance, Simal Rai, a taxi driver, and Chandra Bahadur
Kshetri, a bus conductor, both returned jewellery worth hundreds of thousands
of Nepalese rupees to unknown passengers.
Bhandari
has artfully created a collection by interweaving the distinct narratives of
individuals from Nepali society. Astonishingly, these individuals were not born
into privilege. Instead, they were people who persevered through hardship,
experienced life's lowest points, rediscovered their motivation and strength to
serve others, and channelled their resources and efforts to benefit those in
desperate need.
The
book opens with the poignant story of Bishnu and Laxmi Gautam, who tragically
lost their two sons in separate accidents, both in Nepal and abroad. Despite
their own profound grief, they resolved to serve others in need, establishing a
school in Chitwan, constructing homes for those affected by the earthquake in
Sipaghat, and conducting adult education programmes in various locations. The
school they supported in Kanda, Chitwan, now boasts excellent hostel facilities
as well.
Another
compelling individual featured in the book is Binaya Jung Basnet from Lalitpur,
who has performed the last rites for over 6,000 unclaimed deceased individuals.
Once struggling with alcoholism and having lost all hope, Basnet has now found
purpose in his life and leads a fulfilling existence with his wife and
daughter, who frequently pays her respects to the unclaimed bodies for whom her
father performed the final rituals.
Similarly,
Shree Neha Pokhrel dedicates her life to caring for individuals with mental
challenges. While this responsibility typically falls upon the families of the
individuals or the state, this young woman has found profound fulfilment in
serving those who, in many cases, barely recognise her. Shree Neha began her
charitable work while still a student in class 10.
The
story of Til Bahadur is deeply moving. He ran away from home at a young age
simply because his feet were turned inwards, and he found no acceptance among
his peers in his village and school. He quietly climbed onto the roof of a bus
from Jhapa and hid there until it reached Kathmandu. Later in life, Til Bahadur
established a home for children who had lost their families in disasters and
accidents.
Likewise,
Durganath Dahal's dedication to sick animals and people in need, Nirmala
Poudel's support for individuals living with HIV, Sabita's school for children
with autism, and Dayaram Sir's commitment to teaching visually impaired and
non-verbal individuals are other highly inspiring stories. All these narratives
deeply resonate with the readers. What makes this collection particularly
powerful is that each story begins with heartbreaking circumstances and
culminates in acts of selfless service that are sure to bring a smile to your
face. In many instances, the author also shares his personal experiences of
meeting these individuals and learning about their struggles and triumphs.
The
book itself begins with a deeply personal and affecting account from the
author. In this introductory chapter, Bhandari recounts a devastating fire that
his sister barely survived and his mother's battle with cancer, which
ultimately claimed her life. These traumatic events left him deeply disturbed
for an extended period, hindering the completion of the book for several years.
Finally, after a decade, he was able to bring it to its conclusion.
This
book is undoubtedly worth reading and owning. The writing style reflects the
author's background in journalism, employing a clear and direct reporting
approach. It has the power to rekindle hope in your hearts and will certainly
force you to rethink about your thinking about the humankind and society. If it
nudges you to take a small step to the direction the book intends to, it would
be service to you and the society at the same time.
Nepal's
socio-economic challenges are significant and pressing. However, if the spirit
of humanity can still manifest itself through acts of service, then hope
remains. We must not allow the clamour of greed to drown out the quiet voices
of compassion. Now, more than ever, we need to recognise, support, and draw
inspiration from those who serve, not for personal gain, but for the well-being
of others. In their actions lies the true strength of a nation – and this is
the ultimate message of the book.
Published in The Rising Nepal daily on 10 September 2025.
